If you celebrate your differentness, the world will, too…Tell the world you are one-of-a-kind creation who came here to experience wonder and spread joy. Expect to be accommodated.” ― Victoria Moran, Lit From Within: Tending Your Soul For Lifelong Beauty

Do you sometimes feel that you are less efficient? Less in shape? With less success in your life? Do you feel less confident?
Do you feel less valuable than others? Do you feel less loveable?
If you are reading this post, it means you know what I mean. We all have felt that doubting sensation of less value, one day or another. We’ve all been there. Could have been due to race, ethnicity, gender, physical difference or sexual orientation.

If you feel unlovable in any way, create a new image of yourself and become emotionally involved with that image, as often as possible, thinking and FEELING what it be like to be that person.

I will tell you what I have found out to be of a great help to modify this questioning and it is scientifically proven. You can be different and be happy, and be you!

Whether you are young or whether you are young in heart, a mother, a millennial, an employee, a grand-parent, let me tell you this: The fact that you are alive in this world, you have all the opportunities to be yourself, each and every day. Express yourself! Don’t be shy to show your uniqueness, others will benefit from you. You may be an artist with a fun talent, or a very creative pastry-chef .
The more diversity, the more creativity.

We have the Universe with us. The Universe is your best friend, for many reasons and I’ll explain why:

Think about how many different flowers, birds, trees, animals live on our planet. The ocean offers a full variety of magnificent colored different species. Each has a deep value. And a reason to be here. The strangest is the normality, fauna, flora and humans.

Leonardo da Vinci said: “Nothing is missing and nothing is in excess, Nature is perfect!”. Our own uniqueness makes of this world a MAGICAL place. YOU ARE PART OF THIS WORLD!

Our own uniqueness makes of this world a MAGICAL place. YOU ARE PART OF THIS WORLD!

Look around you, the world is a greatness of diversity because a lot of people are different. How would be our world if we all were clones of each other, all the same duplicates like dolls aligned in a store?

Scientists, psychologists, sociologists, economists have concluded that “people who are different from us make us more creative, more diligent and harder-working”. Among diversity, we all act smarter, more efficiently, with new ideas.
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Also something to keep in mind:
Over the years, I found out that:

  • What others think of you is none of your business. Let go criticism. Let go when others make fun of you.
  • Others do not know what the best is for you.
  • Others are not right; others do not have the answers to all the questions in the world.

You are One-of-a-kind.
And actually the secret is: be the person you would like to be; you have talent and potential in you. Express it:

  1. MENTALLY : Visualize the positive image: visualize the ideal person you want to be, in your forehead, in your mind, eyes closed, a smiling, gracious, caring person you would like to be. Be very clear about the image you want for yourself. This exercise can be learned, and practiced every day, on every occasion. Do not expect that your confidence to express yourself will be a miracle overnight. It needs time for your confidence to grow within you. And it will.A great tip : The best time to do this is when you fall asleep at night; eyes closed, being calm, all the muscles relaxed, listening to a soft music, keep a positive image of yourself. Sustain the images of a smiling, confident you, expressing yourself as you are. Visualize yourself exactly as the person you want to be. Our brain is in Alpha state when we fall asleep and when we wake up. It’s the state between ‘awake & sleep’. It is the state of calm and meditation. So it’s the perfect time ! Your subconscious mind can’t differentiate between what is real and imaginary, so get very clear about the image you want of yourself. And it is very positive to use that moment to send your brain positive affirmations and precise images of yourself as a very confident person, smiling, happy with others.
  2. PHYSICALLY : Have the body language of your ideal different you. Your posture, your eye-contact, and your smile.
    • Have the posture of a straight-determined person. When you walk and when you sit. Walk with determination. Sit straight.
    • the back and your chin up and straight
    • And the eye-contact is very important when meeting a new person. The handshake also must be firm and driven. Always stand tall. And attend with determination.
    • Also, develop a new way of speaking to yourself and others, with drive and energy.

    A great tip : Breath is very important as your breathing will provide calm and serenity, along your day. It’ll sweep away stress, with few minutes of deep breathing every time possible.

  3. WITHIN YOUR SOUL : Give Love on every encounter: Smile, give thanks, be grateful, transform your inner you with what is good, do good to others and your inner self will be healthier and happier than before. It has been proven by scientists. More Compassion, More Forgiveness, More Gratitude, brings More Happiness in the sense of life satisfaction.

With these three great steps, practiced every day, others will see your inside, and your outside will be beautiful to their eyes, because what will speak to them is Goodness, Grace, Fun, Love, Generosity.

Give what you have inside; because as Antoine de Saint-Exupery wrote: “The Essential is invisible for the eyes”, If I love you, I will see what some others will not see.
But if others get to know you, if you tame them, they will see you as your inside is. And the outside will become gracious and beautiful and friendly to them.
With grit and grace,
With style, and good humor.

In her words, Victoria Moran expresses exactly what we all should feel. Each and every day! Love yourself, spread love and Love will come to you in unlimited quantity, in multiple ways.

Be different, Be HAPPY, Be YOU

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If you celebrate your differentness, the world will, too…Tell the world you are one-of-a-kind creation who came here to experience wonder and spread joy. Expect to be accommodated.” ― Victoria Moran, Lit From Within: Tending Your Soul For Lifelong Beauty

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