{"id":456,"date":"2017-06-06T16:57:01","date_gmt":"2017-06-06T16:57:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ec-dev.bhirst.dev\/?p=456"},"modified":"2017-06-22T06:49:08","modified_gmt":"2017-06-22T06:49:08","slug":"millennial-parenting-7-key-crucial-advice-will-instantly-turn-drama-home-dream-land-forever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/millennial-parenting-7-key-crucial-advice-will-instantly-turn-drama-home-dream-land-forever\/","title":{"rendered":"MILLENNIAL PARENTING: The 7 Key Crucial Advice That Will Instantly Turn Your Drama Home Into a Dream Land Forever"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section bb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.51&#8243; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>TO ALL&nbsp;MILLENNIALS FROM THEIR PARENTS<\/h3>\n<p><i>Millennials \u2014 the generation born between the early 1980s and 2000 (so in 2017 between 37 and 17&nbsp;years old for the youngest)<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>FROM A PARENT TO MY&nbsp;MILLENNIAL&nbsp;CHILD(REN)<\/h3>\n<p>I can see you are growing, becoming an adult now, and maturing,<br \/>\nYou listen to me &#8211; you listen to me and don&#8217;t interrupt me &#8211; you listen to what I have to tell you \u2013<\/p>\n<p>Your life is immensely precious to me;<\/p>\n<p>You have to know that!<\/p>\n<p>Imagine that <b>what you LIVE&#8230;I LIVE IT too!<br \/>\nWhat you FEEL&#8230; I FEEL IT too!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>and not only you but also each one of your brothers &#8211; 4 of them, I have 5 sons.<br \/>\nAlexander what you live I live it too &#8211; not entirely of course but partially and this affects me,<br \/>\nand it is the same for all of your other siblings,<br \/>\nFor your brother Julien,<br \/>\nand it is the same for Matthew,<br \/>\nand the same for Frantz,<br \/>\nand also for Hugo,<br \/>\nAll that you live, I live it too &#8211; <b> So make everything as smooth as possible <\/b>\u2013<\/p>\n<p>This is my message to my millennial children!<\/p>\n<p>Many times, it happened to me, that I give advice to my teens, each one of them, any of my now Millennials, going to or getting into some new adventures, or endeavors.<\/p>\n<p>Do they listen?<\/p>\n<p>Nope, never!<br \/>\nIt seems they never listen!<\/p>\n<p>With our millennial teens or young adults, it seems we talk to them when the issue or the problem has already occurred.<br \/>\nAfter a while, it is important to teach them the basic:<\/p>\n<p><b>\u201clessons learned.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Lessons learned are experiences distilled from a project that should be actively taken into account in future projects.<br \/>\nAnd this can apply to any kind of project!<\/p>\n<p>The <b>&#8216;been there, done that!\u2019<\/b> this is something all moms\/dads know about when they have teens or Millennials.<\/p>\n<p>Live from our experience is not a choice for our children!<br \/>\nOur children need to experience their own life, going through struggles, and challenges. But as a parent, it is our soul-greatest-celestial job to give them guidance, spiritual advice, like a mentor would do. Give them our Love via our prevention.<\/p>\n<p>The best of my own motto would be <b>\u2018lessons learned\u2019<\/b>!<\/p>\n<p>Lessons learned can make all the difference on future \u2018projects\u2019 and help them to succeed, but first, they must be pin-pointed and remembered.<br \/>\nWith my 20+year-5Millennial-mom-experience, <b>it becomes clear to me<\/b> that in any millennial problem-story, there are <b>two major black points<\/b>; that show up very frequently:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>A misunderstanding between friends or confusion with any other person starts a messy situation, when, in reality, the dispute is always minor in the first place.&nbsp;For instance, as ridiculous as a clash about who smoked my last cigarette \u2013 who took my favorite pants or tee-shirt \u2013 who played and shut down my electronic-game-console and messed up all my scores.&nbsp;A friend\u2019s argument for being with other friends at a planned time for 2 or 3, and ended up with more. And it grows.<\/li>\n<li>A habit of taking unnatural&nbsp;or addictive&nbsp;substances to pretend at an enhanced experience and to reach a sort of illusion-world as a way of \u2018feeling\u2019 in a particular situation.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Below&nbsp;are&nbsp;<b>my&nbsp;7-instant problem-solver solutions<\/b> to disarming, dissolving and distilling a drama situation, and prepare for any future circumstances you may teach your teen.<\/p>\n<h3>THE 7-KEY CRUCIAL ADVICE THAT WILL INSTANTLY TURN YOUR DRAMA HOME INTO A DREAM LAND FOREVER<\/h3>\n<p>for instant problem solving, get the PARENTING-MILLENNIAL click below<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_cta admin_label=&#8221;Call To Action&#8221; url_new_window=&#8221;off&#8221; use_background_color=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#747067&#8243; background_layout=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; custom_button=&#8221;off&#8221; button_letter_spacing=&#8221;0&#8243; button_icon_placement=&#8221;right&#8221; button_letter_spacing_hover=&#8221;0&#8243; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.51&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/PARENTING-MILLENIALS-7-INSTANT-PROBLEM-SOLVER-SOLUTIONS-checklist.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-464 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/checklist_mockup-228x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"228\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/checklist_mockup-228x300.png 228w, https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/checklist_mockup.png 588w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 228px) 100vw, 228px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/PARENTING-MILLENIALS-7-INSTANT-PROBLEM-SOLVER-SOLUTIONS-checklist.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Download my PARENTING MILLENNIALS 7-INSTANT PROBLEM-SOLVER SOLUTIONS CHECK LIST<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p>[\/et_pb_cta][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.51&#8243; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>And also I want to share this beautiful quote with you, as it explains precisely the sense of being a parent:<br \/>\nQuote by Debra Ginsberg (Author of Waiting)<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThrough the blur, I wondered if I was alone or if other parents felt the same way I did &#8211; that everything involving our children was painful in some way. The emotions, whether they were joy, sorrow, love or pride, were so deep and sharp that in the end they left you raw, exposed and yes, in pain. The human heart was not designed to beat outside the human body, and yet, each child represented just that &#8211; a parent&#8217;s heart bared, beating forever outside its chest.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>\u2015&nbsp;Debra Ginsberg<\/p>\n<p><b>PARENT-MILLENNIAL-LESSONS-LEARNED-CHEAT-SHEET<\/b><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_cta admin_label=&#8221;Call To Action&#8221; url_new_window=&#8221;off&#8221; use_background_color=&#8221;on&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#747067&#8243; background_layout=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221; custom_button=&#8221;off&#8221; button_letter_spacing=&#8221;0&#8243; button_icon_placement=&#8221;right&#8221; button_letter_spacing_hover=&#8221;0&#8243; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.51&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/PARENTING-MILLENIALS-7-INSTANT-PROBLEM-SOLVER-SOLUTIONS-checklist.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-464 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/checklist_mockup-228x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"228\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/checklist_mockup-228x300.png 228w, https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/checklist_mockup.png 588w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 228px) 100vw, 228px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/elisacard.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/PARENTING-MILLENIALS-7-INSTANT-PROBLEM-SOLVER-SOLUTIONS-checklist.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Download my PARENTING MILLENNIALS 7-INSTANT PROBLEM-SOLVER SOLUTIONS CHECK LIST<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p>[\/et_pb_cta][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.51&#8243; background_layout=&#8221;light&#8221; text_orientation=&#8221;left&#8221; border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3>What type of Parent are you?<\/h3>\n<p>Let me know in the comments below<\/p>\n<p>Web source:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/quotes\/27399.Debra_Ginsberg\">https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/quotes\/27399.Debra_Ginsberg<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/quotes\/64971-through-the-blur-i-wondered-if-i-was-alone-or\">https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/quotes\/64971-through-the-blur-i-wondered-if-i-was-alone-or<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n<span class=\"et_bloom_bottom_trigger\"><\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>TO ALL&nbsp;MILLENNIALS FROM THEIR PARENTS Millennials \u2014 the generation born between the early 1980s and 2000 (so in 2017 between 37 and 17&nbsp;years old for the youngest) FROM A PARENT TO MY&nbsp;MILLENNIAL&nbsp;CHILD(REN) I can see you are growing, becoming an adult now, and maturing, You listen to me &#8211; you listen to me and don&#8217;t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":461,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<h3>TO ALL\u00a0MILLENNIALS FROM THEIR PARENTS<\/h3>\r\n\r\n<i>Millennials \u2014 the generation born between the early 1980s and 2000 (so in 2017 between 37 and 17\u00a0years old for the youngest)<\/i>\r\n\r\n<h3>FROM A PARENT TO MY\u00a0MILLENNIAL\u00a0CHILD(REN)<\/h3>\r\n\r\nI can see you are growing, becoming an adult now, and maturing,\r\nYou listen to me - you listen to me and don't interrupt me - you listen to what I have to tell you \u2013\r\n\r\nYour life is immensely precious to me;\r\n\r\nYou have to know that! \r\n\r\nImagine that <b>what you LIVE...I LIVE IT too!\r\nWhat you FEEL... I FEEL IT too!<\/b>\r\n\r\nand not only you but also each one of your brothers - 4 of them, I have 5 sons.\r\nAlexander what you live I live it too - not entirely of course but partially and this affects me,\r\nand it is the same for all of your other siblings, \r\nFor your brother Julien,\r\nand it is the same for Matthew,\r\nand the same for Frantz,\r\nand also for Hugo,\r\nAll that you live, I live it too - <b> So make everything as smooth as possible <\/b>\u2013\r\n\r\nThis is my message to my millennial children!\r\n\r\nMany times, it happened to me, that I give advice to my teens, each one of them, any of my now Millennials, going to or getting into some new adventures, or endeavors.\r\n\r\nDo they listen? \r\n\r\nNope, never! \r\nIt seems they never listen! \r\n\r\nWith our millennial teens or young adults, it seems we talk to them when the issue or the problem has already occurred. \r\nAfter a while, it is important to teach them the basic: \r\n\r\n<b>\u201clessons learned.\u201d<\/b>\r\n\r\nLessons learned are experiences distilled from a project that should be actively taken into account in future projects.\r\nAnd this can apply to any kind of project!  \r\n\r\nThe <b>'been there, done that!\u2019<\/b> this is something all moms\/dads know about when they have teens or Millennials. \r\n\r\nLive from our experience is not a choice for our children! \r\nOur children need to experience their own life, going through struggles, and challenges. But as a parent, it is our soul-greatest-celestial job to give them guidance, spiritual advice, like a mentor would do. Give them our Love via our prevention.\r\n\r\nThe best of my own motto would be <b>\u2018lessons learned\u2019<\/b>!\r\n\r\nLessons learned can make all the difference on future \u2018projects\u2019 and help them to succeed, but first, they must be pin-pointed and remembered.\r\nWith my 20+year-5Millennial-mom-experience, <b>it becomes clear to me<\/b> that in any millennial problem-story, there are <b>two major black points<\/b>; that show up very frequently:\r\n<ol>\r\n\t<li>A misunderstanding between friends or confusion with any other person starts a messy situation, when, in reality, the dispute is always minor in the first place.\u00a0For instance, as ridiculous as a clash about who smoked my last cigarette \u2013 who took my favorite pants or tee-shirt \u2013 who played and shut down my electronic-game-console and messed up all my scores.\u00a0A friend\u2019s argument for being with other friends at a planned time for 2 or 3, and ended up with more. And it grows.<\/li>\r\n\t<li>A habit of taking unnatural\u00a0or addictive\u00a0substances to pretend at an enhanced experience and to reach a sort of illusion-world as a way of \u2018feeling\u2019 in a particular situation.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n\r\nBelow\u00a0are\u00a0<b>my\u00a07-instant problem-solver solutions<\/b> to disarming, dissolving and distilling a drama situation, and prepare for any future circumstances you may teach your teen.\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3>THE 7-KEY CRUCIAL ADVICE THAT WILL INSTANTLY TURN YOUR DRAMA HOME INTO A DREAM LAND FOREVER<\/h3>\r\n for instant problem solving, get the PARENTING-MILLENNIAL click below\r\n\r\n ***************\r\n CALL TO ACTION\r\n **************\r\n\r\n\r\nAnd also I want to share this beautiful quote with you, as it explains precisely the sense of being a parent:\r\nQuote by Debra Ginsberg (Author of Waiting)\r\n<blockquote>\r\n\u201cThrough the blur, I wondered if I was alone or if other parents felt the same way I did - that everything involving our children was painful in some way. The emotions, whether they were joy, sorrow, love or pride, were so deep and sharp that in the end they left you raw, exposed and yes, in pain. The human heart was not designed to beat outside the human body, and yet, each child represented just that - a parent's heart bared, beating forever outside its chest.\u201d\u00a0<\/blockquote>\r\n\u2015\u00a0Debra Ginsberg\r\n\r\n<b>PARENT-MILLENNIAL-LESSONS-LEARNED-CHEAT-SHEET<\/b>\r\n\r\n ***************\r\n CALL TO ACTION\r\n **************\r\n\r\n<h3>What type of Parent are you? <\/h3>\r\nLet me know in the comments below\r\n\r\n\r\nWeb source: \r\n<ul>\r\n\t<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/quotes\/27399.Debra_Ginsberg\">https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/author\/quotes\/27399.Debra_Ginsberg<\/a><\/li>\r\n\t<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/quotes\/64971-through-the-blur-i-wondered-if-i-was-alone-or\">https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/quotes\/64971-through-the-blur-i-wondered-if-i-was-alone-or<\/a><\/li>\r\n<\/ul>","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4,3,35,7],"tags":[],"dipi_cpt_category":[],"class_list":["post-456","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-happy-parenting","category-happy-teens","category-leadership","category-millennials"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/456","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=456"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/456\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=456"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=456"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=456"},{"taxonomy":"dipi_cpt_category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elisacard.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/dipi_cpt_category?post=456"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}